As a mother of eight children, I’ve learned so much about the importance of positivity, both in raising my family and in fostering strong relationships. One experience in particular stands out as a life-changing moment that shaped my entire approach to parenting.

When one of our sons was a young boy, he struggled to find happiness and often had difficulty getting along with others. My husband and I did everything we could think of to help—patiently guiding him, trying to understand where he was coming from, and teaching him how to interact more positively with his siblings and the world around him. But no matter how hard we tried, his inner struggles continued, affecting not just him, but the whole family.

At a time when we were feeling frustrated and defeated as parents, my wise mother offered a piece of advice that would transform our lives: she suggested that instead of focusing on where our son needed to improve, we should find the good in him and praise it—no matter how small the positive action might be.

Could this approach really work? We didn’t know, but nothing else was, so it was worth a try.

In the weeks and months that followed, my husband and I began looking for every opportunity to praise our son’s positive actions. Whether it was small moments of kindness or efforts to improve, we made sure to acknowledge and encourage the good. And soon, we began to see a change. Our son’s outlook brightened, and he became more willing to engage in positive behaviors. It was like a light had been switched on. As we praised his efforts, a virtuous cycle emerged—our kind words led to more positive actions, which led to more praise, and so on.

This transformation didn’t just happen for our son—it happened for us, too. As parents, we became more loving, understanding, and focused on nurturing the good. We learned that when we prioritize positivity, we create an environment where our children—and ourselves—can truly flourish.

Building Positivity in the Home and Beyond

This powerful experience led me to create Positively.Today, a platform dedicated to spreading kindness and positivity far beyond the walls of our home. The same principles that helped transform our family now guide my mission to uplift and inspire others.

I believe love and kindness are the foundation of a happy, successful family and a thriving community. These are not just ideas I’ve read about—they are lessons I’ve learned firsthand. Positive words and small acts of kindness have the power to transform lives, families, and entire communities.

Tips for Bringing Positivity into Your Home:

• Speak kind words often: Acknowledge and celebrate the small victories and acts of kindness you see in your loved ones.
• Be patient: Growth takes time, but consistent encouragement will help nurture positive change.
• Lead with love: Create an environment where love and kindness are the focus, not perfection. Mistakes are part of the journey, and kindness helps everyone grow.

At Positively.Today, my goal is to spread the same love, positivity, and kindness that changed our family. Whether it’s through uplifting messages on yard signs, t-shirts, or everyday words of encouragement, I believe in the power of positivity to build a kinder, more compassionate world.

Small acts of kindness and positive words can truly make a difference. Let’s make positivity a priority in our homes and communities, and watch the ripple effect of goodness grow.